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Baby Memory Box

….Can a leak in the roof be serendipitous?  Normally, I would answer ‘no,’ however, in this case, I am starting to think that  my recent one was lucky.  A few weeks ago, the snow came melting through the crawl space above my office closet which required me emptying the contents from the top of the closet onto the couch where it still remains because the leak has only been temporarily fixed. I have been crawling out of my skin with how messy my office has become and heading to Starbucks with greater regularity, but then early this morning, I decided to sift through some of the stuff.

There it was in the great big pile of crap….My memory box for my first-born.  Complete with the outfit he wore home from the hospital and to his bris and a little envelope with locks of his hair.  I cannot believe that the sleepy-eyed 5’3” preteen who just left for school with the faintest hairline forming above his upper lip wore that little blue plush DKNY onesie.  I loved that outfit with the soft feel and ribbon closure.  An indulgence that I would only be able to partake in for a few years, dressing my adorable little baby boy in what I wanted, I am glad I took advantage.  A drastic difference between the soft layette which my mom and I carefully hand-picked each item washing each one in Dreft for my baby boy’s sensitive skin.  Now, my laundry room is filled with Hanes undershirts and basketball jerseys and boxer briefs that need something way stronger than Dreft.

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Sometimes a Double Stroller means so much more than what it is.

Nine years ago today, Henry was assembling a double stroller in the driveway for our second baby who we were not certain would be a reality.

It was a hot and sunny day in May, JB was running around the yard, and Henry was struggling with the Graco Duo Glider that we debated over purchasing for a month.  At the very last-minute, we decided to pull out all the stops and get the big hunk of a stroller (in navy blue not mint green).

Not the Duo Glider but an illustration of HB's assembling skills -

I was huge, hot, and ready to deliver a baby the next day (I was being induced first thing in the morning).  Henry was about as ready to meet his second son as he was his first.  We were both completely and utterly unprepared for the change that was upon our little family.  To a certain extent, I don’t think either of us really believed that we were going to have a second baby.  Our denial was the elephant in the room for nine months.

I only have these memories in my mind from that day.  In fact, the only recollections of the nine months during which I was pregnant with BB are in my head.  There are no photos of my pregnant belly or nudie shots a la Demi Moore like with baby # 1.  In fact, there is no tangible imprint of the pregnancy on our lives from those nine months.  My heart still beats fast whenever I think of those LONG nine months.

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I have been in BIZ for ELEVEN years ?!?!?

Today I took my oldest son for his ELEVEN year checkup!  Forget the fact that I feel old, and yes, I did spend a few minutes searching for wrinkles this morning.  Did you hear me say that I have an ELEVEN year old?  Who by the way is Double Digits in age, Triple Digits in weight, and a 1/4 inch shy of 5 feet tall!

MOM -- STOP!

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The Horizon is Blinding with Opportunities

Last weekend I grabbed coffee with a friend who moved away from Pittsburgh 2 years ago.  We were friends B.B.M. – Before.BacknGroove.Mom

 

Post establishing BacknGrooveMom, my friend commented on how much I learned concerning inventing, manufacturing, growing a business, etc AND how did that make me feel?  The obvious answer is proud, but upon further evaluating, I would say it makes me hopeful, optimistic, and encouraged.  Why?  As women and moms we have a wide array of choices waiting on the horizon.

photo courtesy google via Pinterest

Screw the mommy wars and the pitting of Working Moms vs. SAHM’s.  Forget what you may do before kids, during the toddler years, and afterwards.  You may choose to stay in the same career progression or decide to change 3 times with one change being full-time mommyhood.  The choice is not what counts, it is the reality that you CAN make these changes/choices.

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unexpected gratitude

It is 2 days before Thanksgiving, and the pressure is mounting to write the obligatory ‘What I am thankful for’ post.  Gotta be honest, it is probably not going to happen.  I tend to repel the expected, and more often than not, do the opposite.  I recognize that would mean writing a post about ‘What or Whom I could do without…,’ so that is probably not going to happen either (although there are a few items on that list).

I am certainly thankful for the last year.  Inventing a product while writing and growing this blog obviously are both highlights of 2011 for me, and there are so many thank-you’s involved that I could write until Thanksgiving Day.  That is what made me really think about what I wanted to say/write (I do that from time to time), and I came up with this…..

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tween vs. newborn

The fam is back from a one night adventure to visit our NEW baby (GIRL) cousin!  What a drastic difference between the tween years and the newborn stage – whew!

check out the crazy video (from the car ride) that I uploaded on the trip and compare it to this picture  

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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An inspiration to all moms, one mompreneur finds her groove

Here on Back’NGrooveMom, I am always open and honest with you, my readers, regarding my transition and the absolute craziness of being a mom and a mompreneur.  As I embark on some changes and additions on the site, I wanted to share a really special story with you all.  Back’NGrooveMom is a place for all moms who need to jump-start their groove whether it be right after baby #1 or after years of staying-at-home.

Having a baby, becoming a mom, and balancing it all with a career is an extremely difficult task on its own.  Coupled with postpartum depression, all of the aforementioned can seem nearly impossible.  We often keep postpartum depression very quiet and private, but today’s featured mom bravely describes her transition with baby #2, postpartum depression, starting her own business while working, and finding her groove all over again!

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